Tuesday, June 3, 2008
You Never Know...
We have NO food in the house. I needed to get milk, eggs, bread, all the basics. I planned to go to Target after the bank. I leave the bank and think, "I guess I'll go to Walmart". As I'm heading towards the left hand lane to turn into the Walmart lot, the car in front of me is driving strangly. It seems to burst foward, and then stop. As I get closer, I can see a man in the passenger seat struggling with the driver. He punches the person, grabs and pulls the person. I slow down and reach for my cell phone to call 911. Drat! I don't have my cell phone. I start to memorize the license plate number.
As I approach closer, I now see this man CHOKING the driver with both hands. The car is swerving all over the two lanes. I pull up as close as I can and lay on the horn to help startle the guy off the other person. At this point a large cup of soda flies out of the window....the driver door opens and out comes a scared lady, probably in her 40's. She's standing in the middle of the road totally shaken, just beaten and choked. I drive right up to her and say, "Get in the van!" She runs around and jumps in with me. By now the guy has gotten in his car and driven off.
I pull into the Walmart parking lot and try to comfort this woman. By questioning her I learn that this is her husband of 17 years who has beat her all the time. Once she did call the police and he was in jail. They have no children together, her kids are grown, but his 16-year old daughter does live with them. According to her, he treats her badly as well. I told her that if she wanted to call the police that I would be the witness to the whole thing. I could tell that she wasn't going to do that, so she called her son to pick her up. I also learned that he has no job and his unemployment had just run out. They were having money issues. She is paid to take care of her ailing parents.
As we are waiting, I tried to comfort her. I told her that I was a Christian and I asked her if she had ever gone to church. "Oh no, but my husband did one time when I left him. He told me he prayed that I would come back to him". I told him that going to church doesn't make one God's child, much like sitting in a garage doesn't make one a car.
She understood that her husband was trying to manipulate her. She did say that her 16-year old step-daughter did go to church. "May I pray for you right now?" I asked. She said yes. So I put my hands on her and I prayed for her, for her husband, and for her entire family. I asked that God would bring His peace that can only come by knowing His son, Jesus. She wept and shook as I prayed. I prayed that her husband would be convicted of his sin and that he would make peace with God as well. Then I briefly told her my story as I have been a Christian all my life but have not lived perfectly but I have always found forgiveness and strength in the Lord. She seemed to listen and be comforted by this.
I had some CD's in the car. I gave her my CD and a Master's Quartet CD. I told her to listen to these when she is discouraged. I also gave her my card with my phone number and told her that she can call me anytime.
Her son finally arrived and gave me a big hug for helping his mom. At that moment, the phone rang. It was the husband demanding to know where the wife was. That son said some things to that man I've NEVER heard before! He cussed with all the hatred a son could for his hurting mother. He then turned around to me and said, "I'm sorry ma'am, that I said those things in front of you". I said, "It's OK." As he thanked and hugged me, I said, "God placed me at the right time and the right place so I could help your mom. God is watching out for you." He said, "Yeah, my sister goes to church and all that....maybe we should too!" The lady gave me a hug and started to cry. I told her that she was precious and that I was her new friend.
It's pretty hard to shop for milk and eggs after something like that! God knew what was going to happen today, and he placed me in a path to administer grace to a hurting person. I hope I hear from her again as I'd like to speak to her more about the Lord. I hope she listens to the CD's as they contain messages of hope and of salvation. She now knows the message of salvation so I pray that the Holy Spirit would till the seeds that have been sown today.
You never know what's going to happen...even going to Walmart.
"Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. Do everything in love." I Corinthians 16:13 NIV
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3 comments:
It appears that God the Father employed you as an angel of mercy, Rochelle, for one person who could not otherwise comprehend His love, except through you. Though we may never know, we rejoice in what Christ intends to accomplish with this family and the role you had in being a living witness to His presence.
Uncle Jim
Thanks for that encouragement! I don't understand sometimes why God uses us (rather than writing about Himself in big letters in the sky) but I'm humbled when He uses us in such ordinary circumstances.
A good reminder to be flexible to the Holy Spirit. Really touched my heart.
Kathy
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